My mom is constantly on the phone when I go to visit her, and she will sit there and talk the whole time I'm there and not consider that I am a guest and I am visiting her. I find it to be rude, and I have noticed she does not do this to anyone else, not even my sister. If I called and my sister and her family were visiting my mom, she would tell me she had company right now and to call her back later. This has been going on forever, but I haven't said anything, but I'm ready to because I'm getting fed up with it. It's like she lives in "phone world" more than she does the real world. I remember even as a teen being annoyed because she would take/make calls right at the dinner table while we were all eating just to chat, but now I can't even stand to visit her anymore. One time I was literally in the middle of telling her something and as I was speaking she picked up the phone and started dialing my sister just to talk! Is that not rude, or what? I was kind of venting here, but would you say something her if you were in this situation, and would you feel disrespected?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:17 PM on Apr. 24, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by ItsJustMe1017 at 11:33 AM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 1:22 PM on Apr. 24, 2011
Answer by Cristi1004 at 1:42 PM on Apr. 24, 2011
She is showing who her favorite is i would call her on it and leave , or not visit, she knows where you are correct? just let her know, you have tried over the years, and you love her no matter what.. BUT YOU GIVE UP. when you just want to have a mother daughter visit.get together, chat.you cant for you feel pushed away.
We are not mom. but find us, we will chat/visit with you.
Answer by AMMA554 at 1:42 PM on Apr. 24, 2011
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