I posted a question about my husband and I having suspicions of my MIL touching my DD. There were a lot of signs that pointed to it. Her behavior changed drastically, she started pooping and peeing her pants, and the biggest...she decided she did not want to go to her grandmas anymore.
Well, my daughter came out and said "Grandma likes to itch my private parts while im dreaming and then wash her hands." When she said this, I did not ask anymore questions, but we did call a hotline and they will make a report to CPS. She also said that it has happened lots of times.
I KNOW something happened, but for some reason I am feeling guilty about accusing my MIL. I KNOW KNOW KNOW that she did something, I KNOW my daughter would NOT just say that out of the blue, so why do I feel guilty?
The social worker told us to not have any contact with MIL until CPS interviews her but she has emailed me a couple times asking if everything is ok. I don't know how to respond. I know what I want to say, but I can't. I am so confused and hurt. I just don't even know what to do. I know I need to be strong for my family but it is so hard right now.
I guess my question is, what would YOU do if your DD said that someone liked to itch her private parts?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:37 PM on Apr. 24, 2011 in School-Age Kids (5-8)
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