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Do you think you look good naked after kids?

I definitely do not anymore. I inherited my mother's lovely skin elasticity problems, so I have a wrinkly stomach full of stretch marks. The more weight I lose, the worse my skin gets. It is discouraging to know that all the hard work of losing the baby weight and getting my stomach muscles back wont be enough. Surgery and a giant scar don't sound too appealing either. Sigh.

 
Mom-2-3-Girlz

Asked by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 9:51 PM on Apr. 24, 2011 in Just for Fun

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  • no. i looked fairly good in a bra and panties before, as no muscles or skin had been stretched to smithereens..but being short, i carried all my baby weight right in my tummy/sides, so its like the entire middle, all the way around got stretched out. now, still being 20lbs heavier than before pregnancy, it all hangs and globs (or that's how i describe it, lol!).
    you won't be seeing me naked, ever again, unless you're the doctor. and then, its only one specific area at a time. LOL!
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 9:55 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • Not at all. I hate looking at myself naked. For some odd reason, my DH still finds me extremely sexy lol. I may not look how I want naked, but at least I found a good man hehe
    amberdawnbarr

    Answer by amberdawnbarr at 9:54 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • oddly enough, yes.
    zoejains_momma

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 9:53 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • hugs

    mamawilbur

    Answer by mamawilbur at 9:53 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • Ugh, no. I mean, HELL NO. Stretch marks, saggy skin, this little fat pouch that hangs above my cooch, I am anything but sexy. I do plan on hitting the gym now though since it's been 6 weeks since my c-section so we'll see if that improves anything. I'm also getting Zumba for Wii to keep myself active at home when I get a minute to myself.
    Nanixh

    Answer by Nanixh at 9:58 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • Yes I do and I wear a bikini after 3 kids... I would love to have some boobs tho but the thought of surgery and two scars freak me out... It did however took some time to get the baby weight back off tho
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 10:00 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • ***take***
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 10:00 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • I never looked good naked before having kids...let alone after...
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 10:17 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • (((HUGS)))

    NO. I was pretty fucking hawt, if I do say so myself, before getting pregnant and early in my pregnancy. But about half way through my pregnancy I had a huge belly, and my boobs were ENORMOUS. I swear I looked like a baboon naked. I use to act like a monkey when I was naked in front of a mirror, and then stop because I would freak myself out.

    And I do not find myself in any way, shape, or form sexy when I'm naked still. I look waaay better with clothes ON.
    mrsziemann

    Answer by mrsziemann at 11:02 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

  • lol hell no! i didnt look that great nekkid b4 kids! ;)
    LoraGardiner

    Answer by LoraGardiner at 11:20 PM on Apr. 24, 2011

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