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Fee loaders how do you avoid them

for ever? The always seem to find my family.


Asked by sweetangie79 at 1:15 AM on Apr. 25, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (2)
  • just be honest and up-front with them and let them know that you don't mind helping them out on occasion but you cannot do it on a regular basis. I have had people like this in my life and have told them that and they backed off and we are still friends

    Answer by Christmaslver68 at 7:09 AM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • i don't hang around the people that i "flag" (to myself) as free loaders, people on drugs, people on parole (bc it's hard for them to find jobs), people with chronic no-job tendencies, people "just trying to get back on their feet" but never have been on their feet, and i stay out of people's business. i'm a pretty nosey person but i don't ask things that put me in that situation. i have been there before.

    Answer by angevil53 at 1:22 AM on Apr. 25, 2011