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Question might be TMI but i need to know if this is common

Is it normal that after pregnancy i mean its 6 months now but i cannot sneeze or cough or laugh to hard with out peeing myself a little...?!? its driving me nuts and I feel like an 80 year old woman that needs depends =/

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Asked by Linda_PF at 11:51 AM on Apr. 25, 2011 in Health

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  • Completely normal. The baby is resting on your bladder.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • yes
    do your kegals!

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:53 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • Yep normal. Try doing some kegels. Even get some ben-wa balls to help strengthen your pelvic muscles. I did and it really helped, just don't try to answer the door with the balls in, that could be a shock to the guest if you happen to relax.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 11:53 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • Yes it is completely normal. Do lots of kegels and they even have vaginal exercisers. I had to use one after the birth of my last son.

    Answer by momkaribg at 11:54 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • yes its normal, your muscles down ther are looser than thay used to be and unless you are the world champ of kegel exercises its going to take a while to really tighten them up

    Answer by Jaliceawrites at 11:54 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • It's been 4 years since my last baby was born and I still have to be careful when I sneeze or cough! It's really embarrassing. I've tried the "exercises" and they don't work.

    Answer by nmmama09 at 11:54 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • *they don't work for me, I should have said.

    Answer by nmmama09 at 11:55 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • yep it is normal.

    Answer by MizLee at 11:56 AM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • Very normal. DO kegal exercises to strengthen those muscles.

    Answer by vbruno at 12:15 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • totally normal. I stand and cross my legs. keep up with the kegals and it will help!

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 12:18 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

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