My DH and I view some issues with my DS (his SS) totally different. I was not an innocent teenager, I smoked pot religiously daily until I was in my late 20's, I know my DH did also. I know my son smokes it, not nearly like I used to, but he does, and not in my home(he made that mistake only once! LOL) I periodically talk to him about it, he does plan on stopping at some point. His relationship with my DH is horrible, and I will have to say it is my DH's fault for the most part, I don't think he was cut out to be the parent of a teenager. My son is 18, he is trying to get his diploma through an alternative school, and works regularly. But because of the pot, my DH, especially when he has been drinking, he is so nasty to my DS.......he says we are disfunctional because of the alternative school, and for a long time I refused to let him know I knew my DS was smoking weed (I really didn't want to hear the fights). My son is not perfect by all means, but he doesn't deserve the drunken banter my DH gives him. I am just so frustrated that my DH is angry with me because I am not pissed off at my son! He freaks out because I don't freak out if we see him at the neighbors most likely smoking..........I don't think it is a big enough battle to freak out over.......
Asked by Anonymous at 1:27 PM on Apr. 25, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Kari727 at 1:31 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by ELM95 at 1:32 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
I would suggest counseling (for you all) and maybe drug classes for your son.... GL!!
Answer by June_Mama09 at 1:32 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by MaryMW at 1:50 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by louise2 at 1:34 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
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