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This is kind of aggrivating

You know, i am totally into this whole CafeMom thing. I think it is really neat that we can help eachother with our concerns. But what i cant stand, is when people are legitimently concern about they way they look like stretch marks from having babies, loose skin, different boobs....and you get those ppl who feel its necessary to say something like this, "Oh im so sorry i dont know how you feel cuz i didnt get ONE stretch mark!"
umm... RUUUUUUDE. That is a GREAT way to make someone feel worse.

Please...lets be considerate. We all have certain things that arnt exactly perfect and yea you may not have gotten stretch marks ..but your boobs may be hanging to your knees. Another woman may have gotten stretch marks but have the same boobs she had before pregnancy. Lets not push ppls buttons.

If you dont understand what that person is going through..just simply sorry...i heard ((this or that)) works great! Instead of.... WOW ..that SUCKS..i have NO idea what you may be going thru cuz im perfect!

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:59 PM on Apr. 25, 2011 in About CafeMom

Answers (7)
  • Let me play you a fiddle!

    Answer by SAHMinIL2 at 2:02 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • Thank you, thank you :-)

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:03 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • Well said....OR, just keep quiet and don't respond at all and move on!!

    Answer by ItsJustMe1017 at 2:04 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • YEA exactly~! Why even say anything at all?? Your obviously not helping, just being a bitch lol

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:06 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • I know, right. the nerve of some.

    Answer by yummysmummy at 2:31 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • If that's what you consider rude on this site you are in for a huge wake-up call and you need to get over yourself a little. No not all people get stretchmarks when they are pregnant but them saying they didn't so they're sorry but they can't help is not the same as them claiming to be perfect. It's a far cry from it, and if you're too sensitive to understand that maybe this site isn't for you. BTW I wasn't one of those fortunate enough to not get stretchmarks but I'm not shallow enough to believe that anyone that mentions they didn't get them are trying to prove how "perfect" they are.

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 6:57 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • Kristi- shhhh lol

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:10 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

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