Today, My mom came over to my apartment. I have twin daughter and she was playing with them.
She started telling me a story. She said that when she was pregnant with me, she was also pregnant with a little boy. I was a twin. She lost my brother (Christoph) at 6 months.
I was in tears when she finished the story. Im 17 almost 18 years old, and shes just now telling me the story of the brother I never had. I was upset with her. I wished she would have told me sooner. Im just so upset about it.
Why? Should I even be upset with her?!?!
Answer by virginiamama71 at 3:34 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by Orionsgirl at 3:36 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
I nor anyone else can tell you if you should or should not be upset with her. All I can suggest is this. Look really deep within yourself and pinpoint "why" you are feeling upset with her about it? What you feel, directly stems from your thoughts (same with every other human being). Figure out your thoughts about the whole situation and you will pinpoint why you feel the way you do. Once you figure out the "why" it's much easier to deal with the feelings you are having. You may even find that you aren't upset at all, that your are just full of a bunch of jumbled thoughts having been caught off guard by this conversation and revelation from your mother.
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