My husband and I have a son who is about 2.5 and he is our only child and will be our only child...huband got the big V, we decided that we didnt want more children but talked about adoption later if we did decide we wanted more.... my sister is going to be having a baby girl in september and i feel like im missing out because i only have a boy and im sure if we had had another it would have been a boy too... adoption is still in the question but i think im a little jelous of her becasue she gets to have a girl and they plan on having more... i think i miss the baby stage...but i will get to see her all the time. my sister lives down the street... have you ever experienced this? sorry i didnt know where to put this...Answer Question
Answer by LeJane at 3:57 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by maxsmom11807 at 3:59 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by angelmine2011 at 4:01 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
Answer by choco_mom at 4:17 PM on Apr. 25, 2011
I think it is totally normal to feel this way. If you think that you might want another child then I would start talking to DH now about adoption. Also wait until your sister had her baby. If when you hold the baby you get the urge and pull to have more children than you probably want another child.
Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 4:41 PM on Apr. 25, 2011