We have lived together for 2 years now and been best friends for 13 years. We are happy together and get along like a house on fire. I'd always had feelings for him but didn't say them as I knew he didn't feel the same, he's gay... So 3 years ago we fell into bed together somehow and then we carried on. Contraception failed us and we now have a beautiful daughter who we both adore, we decided to live together shortly after she was born so we could raise her together. We carried on having sex all this time and I did tell him my feelings for him and he said he felt strange about me, he may like me, he was confused... Well since then (2 years ago) he's said nothing about it. He still thinks we're friends with benefits (we still have sex...) and if I try to bring anything else up he says: "i'm gay, i'm gay, we can both date other people". So I went on a date with a man a few weeks ago, just something a friend set up, and when I got back he was so upset and jealous he wouldn't stop kissing and being physical for me for a few days (within reason!!)...
He still denies we're anything though and I'm out of my mind with it. I'm so confused about whether he likes me or maybe I'm just kidding myself since he still thinks he's gay. He hasn't been with anyone else in years and neither have I, and he just WON'T talk. I'm confused... Does anyone have any ideas? This is all swirling round my head and every time I try to talk to him he just looks at me like I'm crazy and skips on yet we're still intimate all the time and cuddle etc and basically behave like a couple.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:56 PM on Apr. 25, 2011 in Relationships
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