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When did you KNOW you were over your Ex?


Asked by Lucky209 at 9:17 PM on Apr. 25, 2011 in Just for Fun

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  • Hmmm... Hindsight is 20/20.. I wasn't even sure if I loved my ex (my first..) comparatively now that I am married and have my own son.

    One day I woke up and was like "He wasnt worth all of this pain" and I was done. If only I had that epiphany earlier..

    I cant say I dont think about him 7 years later.. Especially when I find old pictures of us :(

    Answer by mrsmommy2007 at 10:03 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • The day I walked OUT the door! I didnt look back, never went back.

    Answer by vbruno at 9:19 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • When I stopped thinking about him on a daily basis.

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 9:20 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • when i was not sexually attracted to him anymore even though he is still physically attractive
    i would not get butterflies when he called me on the phone
    i would not look forward to him coming home from work
    his touch was repulsive

    Answer by gwen20 at 9:21 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • When it didn't hurt to think about it.
    I thought about him less and less.
    I didn't long for him anymore.
    I stopped talking about him as much.

    Just all in all I was okay that we weren't together. Sure every relationship holds a tie to you in one way or another. Good or bad, but when you are okay that there's never going to be an "Us" with that person again is when you know you've finally 'crossed over'.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 9:37 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • When i found out he wasn't faithful to ANYONE.....i blamed myself for a few years but then i heard about how many others he had burned in those years

    Answer by brypmom at 9:22 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • When I did not want to get back with him anymore. when I stoped thinking about him.

    Answer by louise2 at 9:24 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • when he was under someone else.

    Answer by dramaMama407 at 9:37 PM on Apr. 25, 2011

  • when i KNEW? when i was told it was.
    im not over my ex by any way other then the lack of respect in return for what i showed.

    never scratched my back when i scratched..
    but last time i felt that i had my ex was one cold night on the couch and heat was broke and we have had been fighting and we got the fire place to work. I was cold and tired and felt like a lost person from being stressed trying to warm the house some how. And i got a rub on my shoulder and a hand in my hair.
    that was my last true moment i felt love. and i knew that night i was gonna be one of the last..

    Answer by shymomoftheloud at 1:16 AM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • After he cheated and I gave him another chance and he did it again I knew he didn't care about me I had to let him go and he wasn't using protection with other females that was the last straw

    Answer by toybar02 at 9:21 AM on Apr. 26, 2011