My husbands brother married a woman a few years ago who had 2 boys, she got pregnant so they quickly got married, he instantly started taking care of the boys , everyone in their family did , she barely had them or took care of them, their bio father wasnt in the picture so he planned on adopting them, when the time came when he was able to adopt them she wouldnt let him.... she treated him badly, ended up taking the boys away from him and the family and then he found out the new baby wasnt his either....
and now his family acts like they don't like me because of her, they think I am the same, my MIL even told me this.
I mean it is odd because there is similarities - i too have a child ( a little girl ) from a previous marriage ( her bio father divorced me and signed his rights over to her), my husband and I had a quicky marriage and found out 2 months later we are expecting baby # 2 , and he also plans on adopting my daughter ( he is a man who even if our marriage didnt work out I could trust him to still be in her life ) ... BUT i take care of my child , I love being a mom and I always put my babies and my husband before myself ( something the other DIL obviously didnt do) , I am young, but I feel like I have a "mature personality" ( as in I have hobbies like a 40 year old woman lol ) , even if we have problem I would never behave the way she did..
I mean I know her and I have some similarites but I am in no way like her, I wont betray a family for a good time or mistreat anyone, that just isnt who I am ..... and it really hurts that they cant see it yet, maybe it is pregnancy moods or something but I just cry over this all of the time, but I am afriad if i try and talk to her about it, it will just turn out embarrasing ... I thought of maybe writing a letter , do you think that would be too "cheesy" ?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:53 PM on Apr. 25, 2011 in Relationships
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