Okay so we are wanting to get married. It started out as justice of peace. Then his mom really wanted to come. So it was gonna be his whole family (mom dad sister and brothers) well my parents live in va. we are in tx. and they said...well we were thinking about it and we want to be there bc the first time you say your vows will be the most significant. (we were going to have a big wedding after the baby is born) well then i said well if ya'll are coming then I'd like you (my dad) to marry us. Because that is tradition and thats what I've always wanted anyway. Well my fiancee's mom made a huge deal about NOT wanting my dad to marry us. So we decided to have the SMALL ceremony in Va at Shenandoah Mts (bc its significant to us) and now his mom and dad are mad that we "left" them out. We didn't leave them out. They are more than welcome to come. They are saying they just dont have money for it. Which when we were making these plans I specifically asked my fiancee to think about it and make sure he was okay that if they werent able to come he was going to be okay with it and he said that he was okay with it and he loved the idea. UGH Now since his parents are giving him crap, he's like well maybe we should just do justice of peace without the parents there and have celebrations with each family. I ONLY don't like the idea bc I want it to be special. THis is a big deal! Saying your vows (esp the first time) is the most important day of your life! I don't want it to be just another thing.
Omg...I'm so frustrated! He "just wants to make both families happy" I WISH he would just think about what WE want!!
What do I do?! If anything?!
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