So my ex husband left me for another woman when I was pregnant with our son. I divorced him, he signed over his rights before our son was a year old, later on I got remarried to a great guy who then adopted my son and has been raising him ( and our other 2 boys ) like a great dad should.
Over the last 7 years I would randomly get contacted by rude, sometimes threatning phone calls and emails .... i didnt really understand and at first I even thought they were just random people trying to have fun ( stupid fun) .
I now know the truth, after getting a ton of facebook emails within a 2 day period , some fo them mention how I dont let the real father of my son be in his life . I then looked up my ex to view his profile and found out that he will post about 3 times a week about how much he hates me and that I keep him from his son .... and tells people to send me messages telling me how awful I am.
Now this person has seen "his" son twice and those where the times when i took him to see him.... He never bought anything for him, nothing.
We have been living a very happy family life - we have a nice house, we do family activites, and he is very close to his dad ( my current husband) , he has no idea of this other trash - but it isnt because of me - it is because of himself , he never wanted to be a dad he is too selfish and immature and it is so unfair that in the last 7 years, while I have made a beautiful family and have been given my sons a wonderful life - he has been having people do and think these things....
Also his new girlfriend ( it says they have been dating for like 2 months ) ... is commenting alot about how they are going through the proper ways to get my son back for 1. can they even do that ? He gave up his rights almost 7 years ago, hasnt had any contact and my son has been adopted by my husband.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:44 AM on Apr. 26, 2011 in Parenting Debate
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