a neighbor of mine has been real nasty for quite some time to me and just in the last few weeks i have decided to not try and be friends anymore. Since we have mutual friends i DO NOT say anything about her to them out of respect for not putting them in the middle. well just recently i started a book club and most of the people coming are the mutual friends and a few others. she has no interest in reading and i felt this would be a nice way to hang out with them w/o the hassle. Well she just accepted a friend request from a LONG time ago when i first moved here and i have a sneaky suspicion that she is trying to weasel her way into the book club. How can i nicely decline her presence w/o this slapping me in the face?
***Update***** just wanted to let people know that part of the reason we are not friends is b/c she is somehow threatened by me in thinking that i will take her friends away so i am nervous that if i deny her she will try and convince the other girls not to show up she has done this in the past. hence me not wanting to be friends with her.
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We just can't seem to come to an agreement,now what?