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When something is bothering you do you vent out to your spouse?

when i have somthing on my mind or am really bothered by something my husband is always the first to know.. even when it's about him..

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lynnlang

Asked by lynnlang at 4:58 PM on Apr. 26, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Of course.. Works both ways.. He's usually the ONLY one I do vent to..
    Obi.Ren.Kenobi

    Answer by Obi.Ren.Kenobi at 4:59 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • I dont vent it out to him. sometimes i talk to him about it. but if its not that important i dont.
    Cherries12

    Answer by Cherries12 at 5:00 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • Depends what you are venting about since you may want to vent about him.
    ladyb155

    Answer by ladyb155 at 5:02 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • yes we do that too. especially if the issue is about our parents. it feels safer that way and we can limit the drama.
    ThatBoysMom

    Answer by ThatBoysMom at 5:02 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • Unfortunately my dh is not a very affection person. If it's weighing on me very bad I vent here on CM.
    arenad

    Answer by arenad at 5:02 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • Yes, I do. We vent to each other, more me venting to him though. I try to fix things too much and that annoys him. Girls are not supposed to be the fixers, men are. But, I am a fixer, we both are. He gets annoyed because he can't fix my issues, I get annoyed cause he won't let me fix his. I suppose we are entertaining to watch sometimes.
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 5:03 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • Yes, he is my venting buddy and I am his. Plus, he knows me better than I know myself so even when I try to hide that something is bothering me he knows and wants to talk to me about it. I call him my personal Dr. Phil ;-)
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 5:04 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • Yes, my husband is great at listening.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 5:05 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • Oh yes...
    sarasmommy777

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 5:17 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

  • yes
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:44 PM on Apr. 26, 2011

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