I know it sounds horrible and I feel horrible. We have the same interests and we joke around a lot and at first it felt like buddy relationship but one night we were working late on a project (oh yeah we work together) and we were laughing about something and I leaned over the table to grab a pen and he rose up as well and we just sort of looked at each other like I want to kiss you but we shouldn't. We were leaned in for what felt like forever and his cell phone went off and we both jumped. I told him it was getting late and I grabbed my purse and notepad and shot out of there like a bat out of hell.
The next day I thought things were going to be so awkward but it was relatively normal. We exchanged hello nods in the hallway and that was it. It was almost 5 o'clock when he walked into my office and shut the door behind him. I had this flip flop thing going on in my stomach and I know I looked so surprised and I didn't know what to do or say. He said I know we had a moment last night. I said what do you mean? He said come on you know you feel what I do. I said I don't know what ur talking about. He said that he doesn't know what to do with these feelings. He said he's had a crush on me for a long time and he asked me if I feel the same. I told him I have to think about it, I don't know what I feel. I left him in my office and once again like a bat out of hell I was out of there.
I can't help but feel so guilty. His poor wife, I don't know her. I can't help what I feel. I justr started feeling this way about him. Did I lead him on over the years? I have no idea. I can't help but replay moments in my head. I honestly don't know what to do about this.
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