So, for a long time I haven't let my boyfriend party etc without me at least there, because in the past he has done some really untrustworthy things. Weather I was there or not, he couldn't turn off the flirt, and worse... I wont go into detail. So I finally just told him that if he wanted to stay with me, I needed him to not go out partying without me, because I am not able to trust him. I told him if anything ever happened again, I would be outta here. Anyways, he has gone out once or twice without me supposedly nothing happened. Generally bad things will only happen when he is drunk stupid... He totally threw the excuse "Well baby I thought that she was you!" at me once. I just about freaked out. Anyways, he has been pretty cool about it since he knows how badly and often he screwed up. Well, I am 7 months pregnant. Our lives are about to change quite a bit, and going out after the baby is born is pretty much not going to happen. So, I want him to go out and have a good time before she gets here so he doesn't feel deprived and hate me for it later. But, right now his best friend is living the ultimate single guys life. He parties every night, hangs with strippers, goes out to find a way to get laid etc. I know that my man will be going out with him, and involved in all this "single guy" partying. I just feel like a bitch for not wanting him to go out, but I cannot get over this anxiety I feel just even thinking about it! I know him, and he has no idea how to stop drinking when he is at a comfortable drunk, and that's when bad things happen. I know this is a lame question and I probably sound crazy. But, how do I get over this fear and anger? I want to trust him...but every time I have given him my trust he has screwed up. It hasn't happened in a long time, because I have been there to stop it. Its not fair for him to never ever go out with the guys... and I want to trust him. I just don't really know what to do. Any suggestions?
Without trust there can be no relationship. You will never fully trust this boy. You will always worry about what he is doing if you aren't with him and watching his every move. He also sounds like he has a serious alcohol problem. Life with him will me miserable for you.
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