so i recently found out im 5 weeks pregnant, me and the dad are not together anymore. he is the type of guy to call me every 3 weeks and act like he is still in love with me then lead me on for few weeks and leave not to be heard from for weeks again. He has 3 children with 2 other ladies and brings all his new girlfriends around his kids after no time at all... he hasnt paid a cent in child support to any of his other baby mothers. He drinks ALOT and gets black out stupid drunk when he does.. he is also 27 and lives at home with his dad still.. i dont want to keep my child from knowing his father but in this situation i think it may be for the best... agh help..Answer Question
Answer by CallMeAngie at 4:34 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by Anastacia1988 at 4:50 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by marcijo182 at 5:43 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Well, that's definitely your decision to make," to tell or not to tell?" You know him and what kinda person he is! I went through something similar and yesterday, I was at the sheriffs office filling out papers for them to arrest my 16 yr. olds" bio father" for lack of child support! My daughter's idea cause she can't stand him ! I'm just wondering if you can afford it cause it sounds like your gonna be on your own like I was. I fortunately married a wonderful man when my daughter was just 3 and her step daddy ardors her and looks at her like she's his! Sounds like you have a lot to think about , good luck, not an easy decision to make!
Answer by anichols1 at 5:44 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Personally I don't think I would tell him. There doesn't seam to be a plus side to it only negatives. It is your choice, but I don't think anything will change with him.
Answer by sweetangie79 at 6:19 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by Flippindadaisie at 7:12 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by meooma at 8:49 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by TJandKarasMom at 9:39 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by mrslabel at 11:01 AM on Apr. 27, 2011
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