Right now i'm a stay at home mom with my 2 stepsons, 2 daughters, and twin 4 mos. old boys. I love it but needless to say i have no friend making time. Which is fine im not the kind of person that really ever felt the NEED for friends. But when i was working as a nurse i had a couple people that i would occasionally talk to outside of work never went out or anything. Which again is fine because if dh or i have a chance to go out understandably we want it to be alone lol. Well anyway my dh is very protective and sometimes jealous but not to a crazy extent. My one "friend" from work who lives right up the street is having marital problems and she invited me over one friday to have a drink and "talk". Well dh drew his own conclusion and assumed she must be cheating and he was uncomfortable with me going there fearing she'd have a man there and if her husband showed up there would be drama. He also fears that married women don't need friends like that because of the whole "misery loves company" theory. Well after this speech lol i said so you don't want me to go? He said i would never tell you not to go but i just wanted you to know how i feel about it. I went and there was no argument he was fine about it but he also did say for me not to get any ideas like having her over because (since i have a problem and i tell my husband everything) he feels her story doesn't add up and that she is a bad influence but at the same time i'm like what am i 12 i don't feel HER life affects ME right?
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