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Do you expect.... (birthday party related)

(1) a gift from the children who rsvp with a 'sorry we cannot attend'?

(2) do you send a gift any way when you rsvp with a 'sorry we cannot attend'?



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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on Apr. 27, 2011 in General Parenting

Answers (14)
  • No, I don't expect a gift from anyone, even those who come. And I always send a card and some cash if we don't attend.
    BabyBugsmama

    Answer by BabyBugsmama at 1:43 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • No, I do not expect a give from a kid that doesnt come to the party.
    Matter of fact, I don't even expect a gift from kids that do come to thier party.Just attending is enough.
    And no, I wouldnt send a gift to a party that my child does not attend.
    kimberlyinberea

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 1:44 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • No, I don't expect gifts even from those who do attend. I just like for the friends to get together and celebrate and have fun, gifts are just a bonus.
    sissy15

    Answer by sissy15 at 1:45 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • No I don't expect gifts from those who don't attend and I don't send a gift if we don't attend the party. If the child is one of my kids' close friends we will buy a gift for my child to give later on.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 1:47 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • I don't expect gifts period. I do not send gifts if we are not attending unless it is a family member or very close family friends.
    But_Mommie

    Answer by But_Mommie at 1:49 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • I don't "expect" anything related to birthday parties. If I invite someone I dont expect a gift...at all. If we can not attend for whatever reason we do not send a gift (unless its a close friend we see all the time or a family member). Recently though one of my children was invited to a party for a schoolmate that we did RSVP that she would attend, we had bought a gift but at the last minute my child became sick. I did have my husband run the gift over to the party, with regrets (since we had purchased it already & since we had said she would be there). But in, general, I don't feel like I should send a gift to party my child is not attending.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:52 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • I don't expect gifts if they can't attend. I really don't expect them if they can attend. I do try to send gifts if we can't attend. Especially if we are close.
    Shaken1976

    Answer by Shaken1976 at 2:00 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • No I don't expect gifts from children who do not attend and I only buy gifts for my kid's close friend, which right now the only close friend who isn't a cousin is my 6 year old's friend from school and I've known his mom since middle school.
    anon1986East

    Answer by anon1986East at 2:05 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • No. A gift is given only when attending a party. There might be a circumstance or two that could be a very rare exception.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 2:14 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • I dont send gifts unless its close family. I don't expect gifts. As a matter of fact I have asked for no gifts for my oldest (his bday is 3 days before christmas) but no go.
    alligurl186

    Answer by alligurl186 at 3:08 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

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