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How true is this about the American militay?

And what are your thoughts on it?

http://mindprod.com/politics/iraqdontmarry.html#DONTMARRY

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:24 PM on Apr. 27, 2011 in Relationships

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    If your husband participates is an aggressive war (illegal first strike war) such as Afghanistan or Iraq, he is guilty of a capital war crime, even if he just peeled potatoes

    Really? Id say the article is pretty bogus and written by someone who does not like the military.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:32 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • Pure B.S. Don't agree with any of it... Have known my military man for 20 years... Married for 11... ;o)
    grlygrlz2

    Answer by grlygrlz2 at 5:44 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • I would never be with a someone still in the military, personally, but for none of the reasons they listed. It's a personal thing- I like bigger guys. My guy would come home too skinny and I would be afraid of breaking him :)
    meandrphoto

    Answer by meandrphoto at 5:55 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • I scanned it pretty fast, but it seems like a lot of facts followed by a lot of editorializing. For example, yes, military families get transferred a lot. The writer seems to think that is bad, but others might not agree. Military men get PTSD - yeah, that's true. However there are some very effective treatments, like EFT. So while the writer might see that as a reason not to marry, another person might feel it is worth working through the PTSD with a spouse.
    Whimsee

    Answer by Whimsee at 6:00 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • This is called propaganda!! And is precisely why the saying goes "done believe everything you hear (or read)" !!
    lexi8622

    Answer by lexi8622 at 7:23 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

  • I'm sorry, I couldn't read it. From the responses here, and from the tiny bit I read...I'm already in a pretty pissy mood thx to my oldest not doing her chores. I can tell it'll put me in even worse mood.

    Fuck whoever wrote that. I love my soldier and would never give him up.
    hopeandglory53

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 8:26 PM on Apr. 27, 2011

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