i was told this today and SO basically said that of all the girls he's dated, and that's a lot, I am the one who needs constant reassurance the most (which i am oblivious to and don't see) and who calls him to hang out a lot.
it almost made me feel like he was saying im needy in a nice way. he is the one living with me, and i do have a lot to offer, but i am more the introverted type that likes to have few close friends rather than being extroverted, out in the open and always introducing myself. i am more reserved and rather hang out with one person (my best friend which is him) preferably all the time.
does this mean we are not compatible?
or does it mean i should try to be more social and open to others, or both?
im just not that way, and i don't want to change. I do not think i should have to.
it is ruining our relationship since he always wants to hang with others but all i want is him. i dont have many girlfriends that live in my city because they have all moved.
i am bipolar also, do you think this has anything to do with my tendency to be "emotionally draining".
Asked by Anonymous at 6:18 PM on Apr. 27, 2011 in Relationships
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