They've been off and on for 2 years. He signed up for the military - left in sept - she discovers she is preg. HE CANNOT GARUANTEE HE WILL BE HERE FOR THE BIRTH so now her whole family is all over FB saying how he doesn't want to be a dad, he's a dick, he's a douche.
I am his mom. I have been fighting myself all day to NOT get into this FB drama - or any of the drama. I talk with the girl; I assure her I am here for her.
Her mom is threatening to have him kicked out of the military (where would that leave the child as far as child support NOW (not when he can find a job) and full insurance?)
She also admitted to me when she first thought she was pg that she had selpt with her x around the same time....so WE (my family) aren't sure this is HIS kid...but I have still been a friend to her!
I'm not saying my son is an angel - far from it. But she knew he was going in the military and continued on with him. She knew his life plan is 20 yrs in!
I don't know how to handle this anymore....I don't know what to say to him - he is so upset; overwhelmed; and panicked.
If you want to bash away go ahead....I just really needed to get this out...
Asked by Anonymous at 7:01 PM on Apr. 27, 2011 in Adult Children (18+)
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