Need Advice on how to handle my situation. When i became pregnant at 20 my DH and I had discussed how we wanted 2 children for sure possibly 3. We also had decided that 2 years apart would be perfect. Well my DS is now 2 years and 4 months old. I am not pregnant, nor is a pregnancy in the near future for me. Why you ask? Well my DH all of a sudden decided he didn't want another right now, and he didn't know when he would even be ready to have another one. It took me a long time for him to even say he wanted another one, just not knowing when. We just married in August and this hadn't been realized until after i married him. I don't regret marrying him, but i am very worried that our views for family are different now. It hurts me to think i may never have another baby, and that my DS will grow up with now siblings! :( How do i cope with this, or do you think im being selfish?Answer Question
Answer by angelrach86 at 9:16 PM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:16 PM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by alligurl186 at 9:26 PM on Apr. 27, 2011
You are giving us a very small piece of the overall picture. Can you (really) afford another child, do you have space for another child, do you have time for another child? If you have not answered all these questions with a "yes," you need to consider that his position may be correct.
Answer by blueberry1 at 9:32 PM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by princessbeth79 at 9:38 PM on Apr. 27, 2011