last night my husband and i got into a big argument. he was being a selfish prick. anyway this morning the first thought in my head was make up sex. i was extremely horny! of course being a mom comes first though lol and my kids were up so i had to get up with them. later throughout the day though i expressed how badly i wanted him and to have make-up sex. he said we would later. now that the kids are in bed, i brought it up again. he says he wants to shower first but he's too tired to shower. its irritating because its just an excuse for him not to have sex with me. so now im annoyed because im wondering why he doesn't want to have sex. we don't have sex alot anymore. 1-2 times a week at best....and its always because he's too tired or some other excuse. i just don't get it, he was the one in the wrong last night, and now here's his chance to make love to me and be close with me so we can put the fight behind us and make it all right, but he doesn't want to. so im going to bed rejected, yet again.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:05 PM on Apr. 27, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by MyMyOhMy at 10:13 PM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by NannyB. at 10:12 PM on Apr. 27, 2011
Answer by hopeandglory53 at 10:14 PM on Apr. 27, 2011
Instead of make up sex , why don't you have make up cuddling and just make out period ? When you are laying in bed, just kiss him. Kiss on him too. Just show you love him and you miss him in that sexual/passionate way. Don't get upset with him or feel rejected, Hun. Maybe he misses just having you in a non sexual way as well ? I know sometimes I just want to make out with my SO. Granted most of the time it leads to sexual interaction, but the just making out adds and makes me feel wanted & loved by him even more so. Ya know ? Have a make up night, not make up sex. I know when I just got out of a disagreement with my SO, sex isn't any where on my mind esp if its something that really upset us or really hurt us. Good Luck, Hun.
Is he into porn and/or masturbation? I know, all guys are, but if it's replacing sex with you, that's an issue.
Answer by 1smartcookie at 2:47 PM on Apr. 28, 2011