It's 54 days since my DH and I were intimate, or had sex. I had a hyster so it's not like we have to avoid my period.
He says he wants to, that he's in the mood, aroused and so on...and then he just sleeps. The more time that passes, the more I start to believe he does need some kind of porn for stimulation and I may just not be enough, or even what he wants at all. I can't even hold his attention long enough to have him help me, help myself, nor does he care that I help myself.
Believe me ladies, I've tried everything. I've tried to seduce him, make him aroused several times during the day, and I'v told him directly to his face "I WANT TO HAVE SEX TONIGHT!"
He's always told me he's not the "typical guy" who thinks about or wants sex ALL the time, and even tho he had a porn addiction doesn't mean he has a sex addiction, which he clearly does not. He says it bothers him too that we don't have sex, but it clearly does not.
Am I making too big of a deal out of this? I'm tired of feeling rejected, and after everything that he's done and that we've been through this doesn't help...
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