I would tell, in an "annonymous" way. Does your friend's husband go out in public with his girlfriend? Is there any way you could have a girls night out and conveniently "bump" into THEM...a nice restaurant, a club/bar, even hotels offer spa treatments (which would be your cover story). There's nothing better than catching them in the act...be a "private investigator" of sorts. If you KNOW for a fact that he has been seen at any local venues with this girlfriend, can you get a matchbook or something like that and place it in your friend's house/bedroom...hoping she'll find it, and question the husband?!
at 5:34 PM on Jul. 10, 2008