My DS8's dad and I have been "working on it" off and on for about a year. We had nothing to do with eachother for the first 7 years of DS8's life, SD wasn't even aware he existed (LONG ugly story).
So anyways, the relationship has not worked, he doesn't want to be "tied down" and I don't want an irrisponsible ass for a companion. But the sex is FANTASTIC!!
The kids have no idea (I see him on lunch, and on my "night off"), but it feels wrong, as excellent as it is. I want a relationship and he couldn't deliver. I feel like I should kick him to the curb completely so I can maybe find what I'm looking for, but again.....the sex...so goood.
Answer by Ataemommy at 4:42 PM on Apr. 28, 2011
Answer by hali23 at 4:43 PM on Apr. 28, 2011
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Answer by admckenzie at 4:57 PM on Apr. 28, 2011
If you want to use him as a human dildo, fine! Have fun! Just use lots of protection! I'm talking condom, I.U.D., AND spermicide! DO NOT let that man use you to bring another child into this world he is not going to take care of! And DO NOT open yourself up to the diseases his irresponsible ass is likely caring. Because you know he's probably not using protection with the other women he's sleeping with. But if you are ready for a relationship with a real man, one that is not only good in bed, but a good father to your children, and a good "husband" to his wife. (Not to say that marriage is necessary) Loose your dildo and find him!
Answer by Motherdragon at 4:59 PM on Apr. 28, 2011
Answer by lexi8622 at 6:41 PM on Apr. 28, 2011