My dad was a cop. He molested me and my sisters. He played russian roulette with me. He beat my mom and my mom beat us. I am amazed that I don't drink or do drugs, I have a good job and wonderful kids. A great man. 12 years of therapy. To this day, my dad is in denial tho I just found out he did the same thing to his sister and my mom has said that its my fault. They are divorced. I try to be polite to everyone but the fact is, for some reason talking to my mom is so much more painful than my dad and I have no idea why. Any ideas? I seriously don't want to ever see her.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:00 AM on Apr. 29, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by BeachyBabe at 12:04 AM on Apr. 29, 2011
Some people are just toxic to you... walk away if that is what helps you sleep at night. Sometimes it really HAS to be all about you!! (((hugs)))!!
Answer by Crafty26 at 12:03 AM on Apr. 29, 2011
Answer by Adelicious at 12:04 AM on Apr. 29, 2011
Answer by Rosehawk at 12:21 AM on Apr. 29, 2011
As a mother, you will do what ever it takes to keep your children safe. You will take your kids and run, you will fight for them and maybe even kill for them. That is all part of being a mom. But your mom never protected you. She never did the things for you that you would do for your kids. It hurts because she didn't do what she was supposed to. And even worse, your mom blames you. Maybe she is jealous of the fact that your dad wanted you and not her, in her mind it makes sense. I know how hard it is to be molested (my molester is still in denial as well). Believe it or not, we can work through this. We are strong women. Good luck!!!
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 12:23 AM on Apr. 29, 2011