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Probably dumb question but I'm half asleep...

Ex and I share custody. he picks up on Fridays after school. For the last couple months he's been picking up son directly from school but I am there too picking up another child. Today other child is ill so I don't need to go to the school. My ex has not communicated one way or the other whether he is picking up son from school or not. He's not answering his cell.

Should I show up at school or trust he'll get him? Son is 9.

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:09 PM on Apr. 29, 2011 in General Parenting

Answers (12)
  • Probably go, better to be safe than sorry & if he turns up ask him if he could let you know if he's gonna be there in the future:)

    Answer by Ellie15 at 5:11 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • Show up just to be sure.

    Answer by booger14 at 5:11 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • I would go just in case...

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 5:14 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • I'm just jealous that it's 4 pm (my time) & you're half-asleep. I wanna nap.

    Answer by EgoTryptophan at 5:15 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • have you text him?? I would go just to be sure.

    Answer by DawnLauren at 5:15 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • I say just to ease your mind, you should go to the school. That way if this happens again you will not question the situation.

    Answer by msplynae at 5:17 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • Whew. He just called me and he's already at school.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:20 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • Yes Ego! I am enjoying a nap, lol. I don't have school today, I grocery shopped earlier, and my homework can wait till tomorrow.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:21 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • Def go just in case.

    Answer by VBM7287 at 5:35 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

  • I'd show up just in case, unless the 9yo. has a cell phone.

    Answer by tasches at 5:52 PM on Apr. 29, 2011

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