That was said to me.
First let me start out at the ( sort of ) begining.
My soon to be ex husband ( we are not divorced yet but almost there ) is now living with the woman he cheated on me with ( and ended our 12 year marriage) , not only are they living together and having a baby together but she now thinks she can raise my children.
We have 3 children, I have main custody and he has them 2 days ( 1 night) a week - that is when she feels like having them at the house ( many times he has gone a few weeks without seeing them because she had such bad morning sickness there could be no "visitors") ....
This past week I let him have them an extra day since I was keeping them on easter ( even though I cant stand them I do believe in putting up a united front and trying to make peace so our kids think we like each other) ... BUT I think that is almost lost now because of what they pulled.
The 2nd day they were over there my 5 year old daugher fell off of the porch and broke her arm, almost broke her leg and had to get stiches in 2 places....and they said they didnt have to call me...... what the heck ? My child got severly injured and had to stay the night in the hospital, but i wasnt even told about it until I went to pick her up the next evening and seen the cast and marks !!!!
the excuses they used was " its none of my business" and " since I talked to her that day one time already, there didnt have to be another phone call made to me" and " she is there kid when at their house"
Are they freaking kidding me... I have NEVER acted like that when it comes to our kids... I even say nice things about *her* so they will like her ..I always wanted my ex and I to be like partners in rasiing them, I even offered for us to go and sit together at our oldest ball games ( of course they didnt even go ) ...
I mean is that even right ? If you are divorced and you child went for a visit to their dads and got that injured - is that fair for them to NOT even call to tell you what happened?
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