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My boyfriend wants............ adult content

to do anal. but i dont. he keeps asking over and over again. what do i do? Anybody ever had it done? sounds painful.
any advice please.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:58 PM on Apr. 30, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (13)
  • It can be very pleasurable. But if you do decide to do it make sure he goes slow, and use lots of water based lube.
    SalemWitchChild

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 6:01 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • If you don't want to do it, then don't! Put your foot down and let me know how it is! ..
    3HappylKidds

    Answer by 3HappylKidds at 6:01 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • tell him only if you get to stick a cucumber up his ass
    miritrose

    Answer by miritrose at 6:03 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • well see, i am more concerned about his size, lets just say god was very good to him.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:04 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • If you do decide to try it, don't skimp on the lube. And make sure he knows that you're in control; if you say stop/slow down/get the hell off me, he needs to respect that.

    Oh and a couple beers does wonders ;)
    EgoTryptophan

    Answer by EgoTryptophan at 6:10 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • i let my husband try it once when we were both smashed (i figured being drunk would help) and he barely got the head in and i told him to stop. it was painful and felt weird. i have heard it can be great if done right, clearly we didn't LOL. but if you are dead set against it, tell him no and it's rude of him to keep asking.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 6:11 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • If U dont want to let it be final ! He can Live without It's Not all it's cracked up to be anyways
    PrissyT

    Answer by PrissyT at 6:17 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • It may help to play around with smaller toys first to get use to the feel of it.
    SalemWitchChild

    Answer by SalemWitchChild at 6:17 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • I agree it can be VERY enjoyable  :)     It does feel "wierd" the first couple of times, but once yo ufigure out how do it gets a LOT easier. Make sure you go SLOW. YOU are in control, not him. You tell him how fast,slow, hard, soft, and how deep to go. Make sure you have LOTS of lube. Don't worry about using too much (not possible in this situatioin lol). Find a position that works for you. The two that are most comfortable are you on your back with your knees on your chest and butt in the air or on your knees with your head/chest on the bed. Spooning is also nice for this too.

    LorisChar

    Answer by LorisChar at 6:21 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

  • Once I was searching about it, someone said its sin in bible.
    reem114

    Answer by reem114 at 6:51 PM on Apr. 30, 2011

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