Me and Mickey have been down a long winding road. He pretty much in his own way scare me and his 2 sisters. I feel as though i am a bad mom because of how he does us. I put him in the CALM center to see about meds 6 days ago, and they put him on respirdol and is sending him home to me tomorrow. I am so sorry and this is one reason i am a bad mom, but my 2 girls have said that they don't want Mickey to come back to our house. It really hurts me to put this out there like that, but i don't blame them. 9 months ago, he ran away and when found was taken to the youth shelter. For 13 days, i ran myself into the ground to find him a place to go to help him. If he wasn't in state custody, then more or less, i was on my own unless i had $ to put him in a facility myself. what a joke! i even told DHS that i was on the verge of beating the crap out of my kid and would gladly take charges (almost true as it was, i was quite serious). i love my baby boy, but he makes me hate myself and him and life itself. he is very manipulative and compulsive liar, but he gets his counselors to make sure i am lying and he is so not the Mickey i know during his sessions, and have expressed that very strongly to them. but, after talking with him or what have you, its always...he said he didn't do anything like that or say that or whatever the case may be, and ask how can a kid like him do_____________? all you mom's out there, please, i am actually begging you cause, i have no one to turn to or even confide in............if there is any place, any where, or anything you suggest that can help me with him before i go off the deep end. he tells me he if i do this to him or even smack his mouth when he calls me a "b*tch" that he will make sure that i lose my girls. please, please help me. call me even 580-304-2997 i am open to anythingAnswer Question
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Answer by sassy21176 at 10:56 AM on May. 1, 2011
Awwwe momma first let me give you a big hug!!!! I understand some of what you are going through. My son, Jeremiah, is 11 yrs old. He has many issues that we have been dealing with since he was about 18 mos old. His official diagnosis are Bipolar disorder, ADHD, ODD, Aspergers, and SPD. he is on many different medications and is still very violent. In Dec 2010, we had the worst time with him. From Dec 7-10th we had the cops at my house every day for many hours dealing with my son. They kept insisting there was nothing they could do, he had just been in and out of the mental hospital the prior month and was on formal probation, but yet nothign could be done.
Answer by 2and2onway at 2:56 PM on May. 3, 2011
On December 10, 2010 i told the police my son could not stay in my house any longer. His probation officer placed him in Juvie and he was court ordered to remain there until a better placement came up for him. My son is now in a place called Crossroads..http://www.crossroad-fwch.org/ this is the website. He is doing better there and they are helping him with his issues. I am hopeful he will be home by next year and hopefully a different kid also. You can read more about my son and my struggles with him in these links. I hope some of this helps and I am giving you some links on where to find help also.
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