I got herpes from my DS's dad. It didn't bother me too much when I found out b/c we were together and I never imagined that we wouldn't be.
But now we're not.
I've only been with two other people since him & I did tell them before hand that I had herpes. They didn't care b/c they just wanted to hook up. I liked them both, but I knew that they didn't want a relationship-just to hook up. So now I'm not dating either one of them. I recently met someone AMAZING and I like him a lot. We have everything in common & we get along so well. He is also a single parent to a toddler. I can just see us doing so much together & being happy. We made out a lot, but I wouldn't have sex with him. He started to sense that something was wrong. I knew that time was coming for me to tell him. So I did. He left shortly after that after giving me a hug. He thanked me for telling him and said he felt bad for me and he was kind of upset...obviously this was a major deal breaker.
He texted me the next day and told me that he thinks I'm amazing, but my "situation" is too much to handle. He doesn't want to continue dating me, but that it's not goodbye.
I haven't been heartbroken in so long. He did exactly what I thought he would do & I am not angry with him. My feelings are so hurt. I am sad b/c I think that I am going to be alone for the rest of my life. My ex wants me back, but I don't see myself being with him. I am not in love with my ex. He has hurt me so bad. He doesn't take care of his son financially, but he does care for him. I am starting to get desperate and think that I will just be with him and force myself to make it work b/c I am afraid that I will be alone forever. Which means that my DS won't have a dad around. I am so distraught. What should I do? I am so lonely. This is the first person that I've really fell for and I can't even help me. Do I have a chance of changing is mind? I kind of joke to myself and say that I'll marry him if I accidentally give him herpes. I know that's messed up, but I try to find some humor in this. Please...what advice to you have?
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