My mom is so nasty and has been since I was little and she told me when I was 25 when my son was very ill she wished I was dead and she always hated me. Now she wants me to forgive her and let it go? This is not the first time she is real nice for a while and then falls back on old behavior I will forgive her for me but I cannot be the only one whose mom is manipulative like this?
Answer by gracelessstar21 at 10:14 PM on May. 1, 2011
Answer by hopeandglory53 at 8:23 PM on May. 1, 2011
My mom was a phyco b*tch from hell. She was abusive both physically and verbally. I had gotten to the point where the nice days couldn't out weight the mean days. I hadn't seen or spoken to my mom in almost 10 years. The last time I did see her was only to sign papers about a month before she died. I said this to some else a couple of days ago. I should feel bad because she was my mom but I don't. Sometimes you need to cut the evil from your life, even if that evil is family.
Answer by how_reb at 8:17 PM on May. 1, 2011
Answer by kkbird at 8:20 PM on May. 1, 2011
Answer by jenn4443 at 8:14 PM on May. 1, 2011
That's because she's trying to manipulate you some more. If you don't allow it, she can't do it. It took me way too long to figure out that I was better off without my moms poison. Once I did though.....I have made a great life for myself. I married a wonderful man, have 4 great boys,my own home, my own car, my own business.....all things that would have never been possible if I had let her negativity into my life. Most of all....I knew I would NEVER be like her. I knew what kind of person I wanted to and the kind of people I wanted to be around. She was neither.
Answer by how_reb at 9:02 PM on May. 1, 2011
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 9:26 PM on May. 1, 2011
Answer by RubyinPA at 10:19 PM on May. 1, 2011
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Do you and your husband cuddle up before yall fall asleep ?