So my father passed away a month ago yesterday..i still have not totally wrapped my brain around the whole thing yet..we didn't have a good father/daughter thing and he would call me out of the blue from time to time..i would go to my grandparents house where he would be and sometimes he wouldn't even talk to me.(maybe a smile).but the thing im having trouble with is knowing if he truly loved me..he never said it to me or my bro or sis..i just was hoping i would hear him say it b4 he passed but it never came out of his mouth..do you think he just thought i knew? i am trying to go on that thought but im not sure..so many question's that will never be answered now that he's gone..
I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad- but, more than that- i am sorry you were left with alot of unanswered questions & wondering how he felt- although, my Dad is still alive- i am in the same situation; i have never had a great relationship with him & growing up i was always really scared of him- it has been quite awhile since i have spoke to him- honestly, i can not remember One Time my Dad has Ever told me he Loved me but, i believe he does- i believe that your Dad Loved you too- i do think alot of Dads ( Moms Too) just assume we know..... b/c for some- it is just Too Hard to say " I Love You" i agree with the other posters that said maybe counseling would be a good thing for you- it will help you work through everything you are feeling- i was in counseling for a long time & it really helped me- Wishing you lots of luck!
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