When is enough, enough? I know many may bash or say I should stay with my dh cuz we have kids and I made a committment and so on. But I have tried, I have tried for years. The last 2 yrs I have realized a lot and I have been trying to get him to see how things he does are not always for the greater good of everyone. I have have people say well if he is not beating you? Okay, he is not.......but when he is irresponsible and when for the last 10 yrs I have been the one with the consistent income, when he yells and bitches constantly, when he belittles you and the kids, when he acts like I am suppose to jump when he says to jump without saying a word, and when he acts like the fact that I work full time, take college classes full times, raise our 3 kids, is a minimal contribution, yet he reaps the rewards of my work, cooking, etc. How much of that am I suppose to take? Not to mention that the sex with him is horrid.....which is not the reason I am miserable. I am miserable because he does a bang up job of belittling me and making me feel like crap in spite of all I do. How long am I expected to do this? Talking to him I have tried, I have learned to be calm , and counseling....that suggestion would be laugable at best to him, so it is not an option.
I basically don't know what to do. I don't want to be the bad guy, financially he has me strapped paying the bills so I have no extra money, and I don't want to hurt the kids but I just don't know how much longer I can deal with being miserable.
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