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Does this happen to anyone elses husband? adult content

Sometimes DH is just to hard. I feel like I am being poked with a steel flag pole! We switch positions and try other things, nothing makes it better.


Asked by Anonymous at 9:50 AM on May. 2, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • You may not be aroused as much as you should be. You may have it on your mind and waiting for the pain, instead of relaxing and enjoying. Maybe have a glass of wine to relax you a bit to see if you notice a difference. Then try getting in that mind frame without the wine. Your body may be to wound up at the time of intercourse. You may need to stop thinking about the bills, the kids, the house, the chores etc.... and just think about getting it on.

    Answer by SnapIt at 11:54 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • the harder the better he too big? my ex was too big & yes....he hurt in every position.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 9:52 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • I wish!!!!!!

    Answer by older at 9:52 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • i didnt know there was such thing as being "too hard"

    Answer by shay1130 at 9:57 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • More foreplay! I notice that too if we don't have a lot of foreplay.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 9:52 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • Yes more foreplay or KY

    Answer by JenzAmomOf2 at 9:53 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • Yep! lol

    Answer by babygirl0782 at 9:54 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • Trust me there is plenty of foreplay. He always makes sure my needs are met at least once before he even trys to meet his.

    Sometimes it deff feels like he's to big!

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:55 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • yea, KY definitely helps. Every now and then my DH is too hard, but I love when he pulses out that big. I agree with everyone else here, more foreplay and making sure my body was totally ready helped. I have had two c-sections and one tubal so I think there may be something wrong there, that may be why I'm hurting during sex.....have you had anything like that?

    Answer by Adeline1210 at 9:55 AM on May. 2, 2011

  • They can be too big. If your vagina is on the small/tight side, then a big penis can definitely not feel so good.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 9:56 AM on May. 2, 2011