does some "higher power" feel the need to constantly test me and my dh's patience? (background: dh has custody of his two kids coo coo bio mom gets supervised visits) So why does it seem like every activity i.e. baseball game chorus concert ALWAYS seem to fall on HER day. It wouldn't be that bad except it seems she has this overwhelming need to be "noticed" she knows that the kids coaches, teachers all know that the kids don't live with her and its like she is on a mission to make it look like she is even slightly involved in these kids lives. It is like a tug of war to get her and the supervisor of the visits (her dad) to take the boys to their game if it falls on HER day but when she does show up she makes sure she is taking pictures, or trying to get friendly with the coach's wife. She tells the kids not to bring homework over because it cuts into her time but yet she schedules her own parent teacher confrences and makes sure the teachers have ALL her contact info. It just seems like eventhough she is in the wrong everything still goes her way. Just need advice on how to deal with what seems like a constant up hill battle.
Answer by ThatBoysMom at 12:42 PM on May. 2, 2011
Answer by zoejains_momma at 12:42 PM on May. 2, 2011
Answer by rinamomof2 at 11:51 AM on May. 3, 2011