that you did not like for personal reasons, not just because she is a woman and you are afraid something might happen between them, but you did not like her for something she did to you or your family. Not only that but he slept with her in the past (before you met.) You asked him not to communicate with her anymore because of this. Then you find out he still is talking to her behind your back. Would you be pissed enough to call of your wedding over this? (my best friend is going through this and she is really hurt about it. I don't know what to tell her!)Answer Question
Answer by kimigogo at 1:56 PM on May. 2, 2011
Answer by KFree907 at 1:56 PM on May. 2, 2011
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Answer by samurai_chica at 1:58 PM on May. 2, 2011
I would when you get married you put your wife/husband before yourself i would give up a friend that i slept with in the past why? because i love my dhmore than the friend. im not very demanding but i wouldnt like my dh to talk to any exs or friends with benefits it didnt work out for a reason so leave them in your past if you want me to be your future.
Answer by whitenena at 2:00 PM on May. 2, 2011
When you are dating both parties are usually on their ABSOLUTE best behavior and bend over backwards trying to please the other person.... that is what courting is all about.
IF there are problems during the courtship then there WILL be problems in the marriage.
I think it is a VERY valid reason to call off the wedding. 1) she wants a man who will bow to her every silly insecurity... he is not the one. 2) He will be for ever miserable with such a childish jealous wife to have to please.
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Answer by kkbird at 2:31 PM on May. 2, 2011
LMBO... so I get a vote down for saying she is too jealous of a woman from his past AND THEN you add that this woman has slept with her aunts boyfriend...... nice timing.
Based on the information ORIGINALLY given... I still contend that... IN GENERAL.... women who are too insecure to admit their men HAD a past are going to make their men miserable with thier insecurities UNLESS they find a wimp of a man who will kowtow to their every insecurity.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:45 PM on May. 2, 2011
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