I am emotionally detached from my marriage. I have put forth the effort and now basically feel as if I am going thru the motions. I want to leave, I had hoped to finish school first but suddenly that seems so far off. I work full time and go to school. So I have income coming in but because of my husband I have nothing saved, and have no extra to spare. My credit sucks because I have always sacraficed in order for us to be able to merely survive while he would contribute when he decided to, and honestly I could kick myself for allowing it, although I harped on him about it on a regular basis. He contributes only when I tell him he has to, and that is minimal at best. How can I leave when I have nothing to leave with? I know I can pay the bills, but I need a new place. I wont' live in this house, I can't. It is next to his parents and that would be a punishment in its own. If I leave we have to leave and get out of this environment, but that is so hard to do. To try to find a place with no money and 3 kids. What can I do? How do I leave? Suggestions and help please.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:56 PM on May. 2, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by KiraStadnik at 2:04 PM on May. 2, 2011
Start saving. Open a bank account of your own and tell him to start contributing financially. if you have to cut out or cut down on bills.
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