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Grammar Nazis... "Eldest" or "Oldest"?

When referring to your child which is right?

Example:

My eldest/oldest child is a wonderful student.

Thanks!

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:55 PM on May. 2, 2011 in Just for Fun

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Answers (7)
  • Both, but eldest refers to people only.
    salexander

    Answer by salexander at 10:58 AM on May. 3, 2011

  • 'Eldest' can be used ONLY of people, but 'oldest' can be used for anything, i.e. people, animals, things, etc.
    Eldest" may be used to emphasize rank or seniority while 'oldest' does not do this, and does not need to emphasize age. 'Eldest' is also used in comparing a group:
    "my eldest son" or "the eldest of my three sons")
    However, "oldest" can be used in a more absolute sense ("the oldest man alive").
    'Older' and 'oldest' are used of people or things, but 'elder' and 'eldest' are used only of people, and only for members of the same family.
    e.g.
    "Dave is older than my cousin."
    "John is the oldest man in the organization."
    "Sam is Sally's elder brother."
    "I have three sons; Paul is the eldest."

    There is no real semantic difference between the two, but by common convention, "eldest" is used strictly with respect to people, while "oldest" can be used in reference to any object including people.

    So,
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    Pamarita

    Answer by Pamarita at 7:11 PM on May. 2, 2011

  • Eldest and oldest mean the same thing. The difference is that oldest can be applied to objects while eldest refers only to people. Either word would work in your example.
    xtwistedxlovex

    Answer by xtwistedxlovex at 7:09 PM on May. 2, 2011

  • Oldest although I'm not sure why.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 6:57 PM on May. 2, 2011

  • you can use both
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 7:12 PM on May. 2, 2011

  • either works
    xxhazeldovexx

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 7:18 PM on May. 2, 2011

  • I agree with pamarita.

    Eldest speaks of the age of an individual, so you could say "My eldest child," but oldest can go for people/timelines/animals/objects/etc...so "oldest" would be correct for this, too. They're not always interchangeable though. For example, you could say "My eldest child," but not "My eldest book," because it wouldn't make sense.
    Mom-2-3-Girlz

    Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 7:49 PM on May. 2, 2011