Okay so we spent Easter with MIL....I made dinner, we went to church, it was a whole big thing (and it actually went okay...MIL went back for seconds and everything...although of course she made her little snarky comment about what DD was wearing to church...I just acted like I didnt hear her...even though she repeated herself..twice)
Anyways the other day DH tells me our plans for Mother's Day...which involves going to his mothers church, then us all going to the movies, then going to his mothers house for dinner......sure that sounds great or whatever but.....where in that day does MY mother fit into the schedule??? he didnt mention her at all...
I was like Ummmm....that sounds great but I plan on spending Mother's Day with MY mother....he OBVIOUSLY did not agree with this plan (the look was all in his face) then he starts coming up with a bunch of BS.."How is it going to look if I show up at church without my wife?" I'm like "How do you think it's going to FEEL for my mom if I spend the whole day with YOUR mama and don't see MINE at all???" so then he switches tactics "I think it's more important that we go to church together" I just ignore this because he's not all concerned about church when he just doesnt feel like going...
I ask him why he would think that I would want to spend Mother's Day with his mother and not my own...of course he can't answer me...he can't tell me why it's so important to him that we spend the day together...cause as far as I'm concerned...we can just go our seperate ways, he can't tell me why he assumed I would be spending the whole day with HIS mama....he suggested we go to church at MY mother's church all together but when I asked my mom she wasnt having it (she's not a big fan of MIL either) so......not sure what to do....well I know what I'm going to do, I'm going to be spending Mother's Day with my mama but he's acting all pissy about it and I don't know how to make him see the light
Any suggestions? Please don't bash my husband. Thanx =)
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