I have a guy friend who crossed the line by kissing me, then saying he was getting over his breakup and he didn't feel any attachment to me, but wanted us to continue talking and wanted to fix any awkwardness (if any) so we could still talk/hang out. Everything was legit after talking about it and hadn't text/communicated as much as we had been. (During our talk he said in the beginning we talked a lot as if we were dating), but if I hadn't contacted him all day, he texts me and says something like "you've been quiet today" and my reply was "well i didn't want you freaking out because we talk too much" and he said "oh lol no". He dates/talks to other females, I just think "why does it matter if I text/reply or not?" If you're talking to/seeing other people, do you feel rejected/or bothered in any way if someone doesn't speak to you on a regular basis?
There was also a few texts exchanged that went something like this:
Me: I got sunburn as well over the weekend
Him: Oh no! I've got some aloe I can rub on ya haha
Me: Well that's not going to happen at the moment. You know the deal
(meaning we've talked about how I dont' get physical unless it really serious)
Him: I was pickin..what the hell do you mean, at the moment?
Me: I know you were picking
Him: you didnt answer my questions about at the moment
Me: it wasnt literal, why the attitude?
Me: Yes, you said "what the hell..."
Him: oh, that's just the country way of askin lol
Asked by Anonymous at 8:34 PM on May. 3, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by kkbird at 8:38 PM on May. 3, 2011
Answer by ladyb155 at 8:39 PM on May. 3, 2011
Answer by ladyb155 at 8:40 PM on May. 3, 2011
Answer by flaka500 at 8:58 PM on May. 3, 2011
He sounds just like my ex!...lol! His name wouldn't happen to be Cameron would it? My ex talked like this to every female he knew. I had told him dozens of times that he was sending them the wrong message. Your confusion that has led you to ask about this question is proof that I was right....Or.....maybe I was wrong....Maybe he was sending them exactly the message he was wanting to send them. We are currently going through our divorce now because he decided he wanted to run off to New York so he could move in with one of his female "friends" when I was 6 weeks prego with our second child. My advise, whether he admits to it or not, some part of him, big or small, is wanting a relationship with you. If you want a relationship with him, keep talking/texting. If not then end it. Or continue talking/texting but make sure you make your desires, or lack there of, very clear.
Answer by Motherdragon at 9:03 PM on May. 3, 2011
Answer by MaryMW at 9:17 PM on May. 3, 2011
Answer by Raine2001 at 10:05 PM on May. 3, 2011
Answer by anon1986East at 11:32 PM on May. 3, 2011