My husband of 9 years and I are in an extreme family feud with my parents. My kids are really close with them, mostly my dad and my daughter. He lives just for her, and she would rather go see him rather than Disneyland, you know what I mean? Things got really crappy. A very very long story short, things got physical, police were called, and we were honestly in the right. My husband was falsely arrested, let out with no charges, Our kids witnessing everything. several weeks later my dad files a restraining order good for a year in family court. Meanwhile I have had the baby I was 36 weeks prego with when we all went to court, weve moved away still in the same town, and my daughter and son havent seen, or talked to either of my parents since.
So ladies the question is this............Should I continue to keep my kids from any contact with them if what my parents did was tottaly looney toon and disfuntional. My kids miss them a whole lot, they don't say it much but I know when they are thinking about them. It makes me so sad to see my kids missing them. but I feel strongly about being loyal to my husband and hes done with them and dosen't want them around the kids at all. I really don't want it to be this way but I feel I kinda don't have a choice. What would be the right thing to do? Our decision, will it affect the people they'll become, or the kids that they are? Will they hate us for it? Thanks for your time. :o)
what do I do!!!
Answer by SassySue123 at 5:00 AM on May. 4, 2011
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