My bf and I have been together since '03. We've gone through losing our jobs, our cars, and our home. I suffer from chronic depression and he suffers from congestive heart failure. Here's my dilemma. I want to live in a city near my just turned 18 daughter and 15 year old son. I wanted to look for an apartment in the city but he said he wanted to go back to the country. Now he finds out his ex-wife wants to save money and move in with her sister leaving her apartment available. Now he says he wants to live in the city to help his kids and ex-wife out. I'm very hurt because I am the one who has been with him through his illness, helped him get SDI, even wiped his ass when he couldn't. Am I being unreasonable telling him no, I don't want to live in his ex-wife's home. He also knew I wanted back in the city so my daughter can move in with us. Please help. Need answers asap!! Btw, I'm 46 and he's 57.
Answer by zoejains_momma at 8:58 AM on May. 4, 2011
Let him do what he wants. You go do what you want. Separate from him.
Answer by louise2 at 9:00 AM on May. 4, 2011
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Answer by Nicoles2LilRams at 10:30 AM on May. 4, 2011
Don't look at as his ex wife apartment. Look at as your new home. Fix it the way you want.
Answer by HomeAlone45 at 11:55 AM on May. 4, 2011