My husband used to work night shift.. so he would sleep until like 1 then get up and go to the gym at 130 and not be finished until it was time for him to go to work. I had mentioned a few times that I dont care if he goes to the gym but I would like him to either cut back the amount of time he went or cut it down to a few days a week. so maybe like an hour and a half at the gym everyday or go like 3 hours or more but only 3 days a week. well he quit going completely and said it was because of me. well I have a 5 month old and i still weigh what i did when i was 9 months pregnant... and a friend of mine has a 3 month old and asked me to start doing zumba with her every other day at the gym up the street. 2 of the days are at night.. but they only last an hour and we had talked about walking a mile or two the off days of zumba.. so an hour everyday.. and then some days we will go during the day when my husband is at work. He is saying I am such a hypocrite because I said something about him going all the time.. which when I said something I clearly said I dont care if you go everyday but does it have to be 4-5 hours everyday and during the only time we get to see you??? am I wrong??Answer Question
Answer by Mommi2four2011 at 10:32 AM on May. 4, 2011
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Answer by BradenIsMySon at 10:44 AM on May. 4, 2011
everyone deserves "me time" and he was being excessive and now he's going from one extreme to another he needs to grow up and share in the responsibilities of a parent in the house hold he's not and over grown teenage He's a DAD and he needs to act like it!!!! he chose not to compromise not you.
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