My husband is the only one who has a MONEY paying job. I am a sahm of 2 small babies (3 yrs and 5 months) and a full time student (online and 2 days at the school) well He always complains about buying us stuff.. but has no problem paying 400 bucks for a ps3 and a game for it... knowing i have money from school coming my way.. well i was going to use this money to buy the dresses i need (4 weddings I am in at the end of the year) and my little girl a swing set.. but since he bought the ps3 he doesnt have the money for the car payments and short on insurance... REALLY?? so he wants me to pay them and i know i wont get the money back to buy my dresses or the swing set.. and he doesnt want to buy the dresses etc... i know he pays the other bills but he agreed to paying them all when I went to school and so i could stay home with the babies.. but he's gotten to the point where its HIS money because he works for it and if we need anything extra its like pulling teeth to get it.. and the wants just dont happen for us.. just him..Answer Question
Answer by older at 11:40 AM on May. 4, 2011
Yep, that happens allot. The person who pays the bills makes the rules. Tell him you are a family and from now on the money will be spent on....and then list your needs and priorities. If he doesn't agree you need to start making a life for you and your children without him. He is a uncaring selfish immature childish boy..and you and your children deserve so much better than him.
Answer by meooma at 11:41 AM on May. 4, 2011
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Answer by kimigogo at 11:44 AM on May. 4, 2011
The school money you have coming is is for school related expenses... you are going to have to pay it back, so spend it wisely!! You are going to graduated loaded down in student loans... don't spend all the money if you can help it!!!
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