Ok I'm not sure how to handle this.I'm gonna vent some so bare with me please this is stressing me out. I just found out the other day that my dh cheated when we were dating & I was living in his house while he worked out on the road. He doesn't know I know. I only found out cause I was checking email for jobs he had me submit his resume for & I saw a strange address. So I looked to see what it was, it didn't make sense. So later on it I went to look at it again & search it & a bunch of deleted emails came up from this woman. As I searched more, I found out he was talking to several women thru emails, myspace & text messages. It broke my heart that he would do that. One women was from Russia & they talked about her coming here to visit so they could see if they could have a relationship. He sent some of the pics of himself that he also sent to me. He even sent pics that I took of him & our dogs. That really pissed me off. He told one girl that he dreams about her. He would come home to spend weekend with me & as soon as he was back to work he was back to talking to them. He never met any of them in person. Some messages are from times when he was home with me. We are married now, but it hurts so much knowing that he did this. That he didn't feel I was good enough to be with. We got preg before we got married & his sis told me in front of a bunch of people that the only reason he was marring me was cause I was preg. I don't want to fight with him about it cause its in the past. But I can't help how I feel. I feel so hurt. I feel like I can't trust him now. I feel like his sis was right about why he married me. We love each other very & don't want anything to ruin our marriage. I just don't know how to deal with this. I don't know if I should ask him about this or just leave it alone.
Please NO rude or negative or judging comments. This is really stressing me out.
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